You are so many things physically and spiritually, you have so many gifts and abilities that sets you apart from the world, but do you realize that? I'm sure family or your best friend have told you a thing or two about ya skills but are you convinced of that? Are you aware that you are Luv? You see nothing really comes to life if there's any trace of doubt in your heart. To be full of unwavering faith is a must. To believe it is well, it is blessed, it is love and that it is yours should be on the forefront of your belief system, if you don't believe it is then it won't. It won't happen, it won't grow and it definitely won't manifest.
Until that is you realize.
When we not only agree with but realize our impersonal intelligence inner life awakens, the treasure is found and new life begins. The most precious gems are hidden and this time it's OK to dig deep and get dirty to discover them.
Here's 10 tools that will help you realize inner Love
1. When I realize my name is Beloved... I AM LUV.
Before your parents named you, before you were even thought of, your identity, your name was Beloved. You've been called many name before; nicknames, childhood names, hurtful names some of which you still go by and respond to (good or bad). My question to you is will you take on a permanent one that will add substances to your life? Beloved. You are the object of divine love because you are a child of the true God who is Love. We are his Beloved, his favorite, most prized possession, dear, worthy of love you're special to him. We did nothing to get it nor can we do anything to take it away, but we do have a part in ensuring that it remains healthy and that's to Be-Love.
Before your parents named you, before you were even thought of, your identity, your name was Beloved. You've been called many name before; nicknames, childhood names, hurtful names some of which you still go by and respond to (good or bad). My question to you is will you take on a permanent one that will add substances to your life? Beloved. You are the object of divine love because you are a child of the true God who is Love. We are his Beloved, his favorite, most prized possession, dear, worthy of love you're special to him. We did nothing to get it nor can we do anything to take it away, but we do have a part in ensuring that it remains healthy and that's to Be-Love.
2. When I realize the relationship with myself is the most important commitment I can ever have... I AM LUV. Being authentic with self sets the tone for all other relationship to be genuine because the head piece is in order. Without the head the body just doesn't function properly. The alone time you spend with yourself, the compliments, the honesty, the development and most of all the forgiveness is crucial in realizing unconditional love within. Every soul needs love we feel empty with out it, we can't function without having it even if it means being hurt in it. By any means necessary will we travel looking to greet it but guess what you had it the whole time. Most people don't know that luv is a self-seeking thing only when we realize whose we are will we come to know all the love we need is within our soul, our mind, our strength and our heart. Then will we be full enough to share with others and give to people you don't know yet of this power.
3. When I realize God wants me to love... I AM LUV
This is true, the greatest command is to love the Lord thy God with all your heart, soul and might and the 2nd is just like it to love thy neighbor as thyself. Wow, no wonder why my name is beloved, it's in my genes to be love and to give it. Even when it may seem hard to love that person you don't like just know you're built for this. Love cast away all fear and anything associated with it so it becomes possible to release it from your heart. True love is a genuine desire for the well-being of another.
This is true, the greatest command is to love the Lord thy God with all your heart, soul and might and the 2nd is just like it to love thy neighbor as thyself. Wow, no wonder why my name is beloved, it's in my genes to be love and to give it. Even when it may seem hard to love that person you don't like just know you're built for this. Love cast away all fear and anything associated with it so it becomes possible to release it from your heart. True love is a genuine desire for the well-being of another.
4. When I realize I can't withhold love...I AM LUV.
I can definitely relate to this, years ago I withheld my love in so many ways it was almost normal. If I didn't feel appreciate I withheld my love, if I didn't like the conversation I withheld my love, especially if I had an attitude going on I most certainly took my love away. It wasn't fair to them and it wasn't unconditional love coming from me. That was selfish love, it hurt them and eventually it effected our relationship. Withholding love can come in many forms; refusing to openly share feelings, keeping valuable information that could better that person or situation or simply fear of being hurt (which is the most popular). The point is when we hold on tight to love for whatever reason we either lose it or damage it. Love is meant to experience and when you realize this the thought of keeping it to yourself will have you feeling so type of way, and this will be the spirit tugging on you to let it go. Don't hold give it!
I can definitely relate to this, years ago I withheld my love in so many ways it was almost normal. If I didn't feel appreciate I withheld my love, if I didn't like the conversation I withheld my love, especially if I had an attitude going on I most certainly took my love away. It wasn't fair to them and it wasn't unconditional love coming from me. That was selfish love, it hurt them and eventually it effected our relationship. Withholding love can come in many forms; refusing to openly share feelings, keeping valuable information that could better that person or situation or simply fear of being hurt (which is the most popular). The point is when we hold on tight to love for whatever reason we either lose it or damage it. Love is meant to experience and when you realize this the thought of keeping it to yourself will have you feeling so type of way, and this will be the spirit tugging on you to let it go. Don't hold give it!
5. When I realize I can love people who hurt me... I AM LUV. We've all been hurt even to the point of sweet revenge, but how much justice will you receive from that? Yeah it'll be satisfying for the moment but inwardly the pain, the memories, the experience will still be there lingering around until love come through and wipe it all away with forgiveness. It's common and human to react eye for an eye, tooth for an tooth, insult for insult, pain for pain but remember you are a spiritual being having this physical experience so it's within your divine power to do what? Love. Love for hurt, love for insult and love for everything they did that didn't sit well with you. Nobody said it'd be easy and if they did honey they lied to you.
I remember being in an abusive relationship and the many times I was hurt mentally and physically was enough to check in at the psych ward. After being free from that experience it taught me alot about forgiveness and prayer. That through these 2 I could still find it in my heart love after all that. You can do it too and even if you can't find it in your heart to forgive ask the Father to forgive them for you but to help you over time to build up courage to do the same. Clear yourself of guilt and blessing held back against you and realize it's ok to love them in spite of them.
I remember being in an abusive relationship and the many times I was hurt mentally and physically was enough to check in at the psych ward. After being free from that experience it taught me alot about forgiveness and prayer. That through these 2 I could still find it in my heart love after all that. You can do it too and even if you can't find it in your heart to forgive ask the Father to forgive them for you but to help you over time to build up courage to do the same. Clear yourself of guilt and blessing held back against you and realize it's ok to love them in spite of them.
6. When I realize I AM perfect just the way I am. I AM LUV. I know you can think of many imperfections about you or your body but God did make no junk honey, you are created in his image so that makes you FLAWLESS. Now we all can improve our attitude or character that's just apart of growing up but to think you're anything less perfect is a big mistake. You are aware that you are rare right?! There's no one with the exact same fingerprint or scent for that matter as you Ha-Ha! You are you and nobody can have that job, even if they tried they'd be doing it all wrong and sooner or later will be fired and fined for being a fake! You don't have to prove to anyone who you are just be, you are sufficient more than enough lacking nothing- BUT FEAR OF COURSE! And so it is 😍
7. When I realize those right roads can quickly turn left but all roads lead back to the divine path...I AM LUV. It happens life throws us curve balls all the time and as we're racing to complete projects, raise kids, and balance life sometimes we face detours that have us turning off on an unfamiliar road in unfamiliar territory. What's for you is for you no matter what way you travel to get it.
8. When I realize my health is my wealth... I AM LUV. What good is abundance and riches if you can't enjoy it because of your health? The way you look and feel on the inside should be the reflection people see on the out. Most of the time outer appearance be in fleek, I mean flawless but the inner be as dirty and dark as a hole, that doesn't add up. Please stop racking up on makeup and expensive hair only to spend pennies on your soul's beauty. The ultimate rule in being authentic, start from the inside out. When we feel good we feel like a million bucks!
A lot of times before we start dressing up we must first clean up and clear out the junk. This means everything from what you eat as you detox, ladies the penis that penetrates you(unless it's your hubby), your negative words that comes from your heart and your evil spirit. This takes time and self development but it's worth the process. As we make room for the encouragement, fruits and veggies, worship and meditation be sure to mark out a special "me day" to ensure a weekly routine of love. As we clean our inner house it'll feel more suitable to pamper our physical body.
A lot of times before we start dressing up we must first clean up and clear out the junk. This means everything from what you eat as you detox, ladies the penis that penetrates you(unless it's your hubby), your negative words that comes from your heart and your evil spirit. This takes time and self development but it's worth the process. As we make room for the encouragement, fruits and veggies, worship and meditation be sure to mark out a special "me day" to ensure a weekly routine of love. As we clean our inner house it'll feel more suitable to pamper our physical body.
9. When I realize it is not OK to stay in a place where I am not valued and respected the way my heart deserves and desires...I AM LUV. This is why loving yourself in a way that honors you is vital because anyone who is not willing to meet you where you are or climb higher is not worthy of your intimate space. Especially in any event where abuse is taking place mental, emotional or physical this is NOT love in anyway shape or form. If you participate in these experiences you may be giving them the OK to hurt you, which is not being true to yourself. Love does not ask us to loose harm or sacrifice our true selves for its name sake and it never will.
This happens way too many times when a person "falls in love" and becomes so wrapped up in their partner that they lose sense of who they are, their goals and their position in the relationship. Now they feel lost and without cause because they've emptied themselves of love trying to over deliver to someone else. Then after awhile your intuition, inner-self, suffers from neglect and in your alone time it starts to speak out demanding your attention. Don't ignore this cry listen to the warning signs. Is this relationship adding value to your love life or are you afraid to leave? The amount you give to self attracts the amount they give to you, is your portion sufficient? When you realize you are too precious to stay God will give you the courage to leave.
10. When I realize I can keep myself pure I AM LUV. Yes we're talking about premarital sex, before we go there note sex and love are not the same. Love is something we are while sex is something that was created for us to experience as a result of a holy union. Living in a society where sex sells makes it pretty much hard to resist the temptation. But regardless of what's popular in the world what's right in the spirit is the only thing that will stand in the end. I'll be the first to admit staying pure wasn't idea as a teenager so much pressure (as it is today) but if I had that person educating me on the Word I would have known better and chosen to wait because I am worth it. It is what it is though. One thing I know it's never too late to start over and do it right, to repent and turn from wicked ways this goes for sex too. No we can't take it back and be virgins again but we can make up our mind from this moment forward to wait abstain until marriage. You don't want to be Jezebel going around seducing every man that comes by, now do you? That immoral woman is dangerous and every man that comes to her home will regret knowing her.
As we give away our most prized possession it somehow takes a piece of us that we can no longer get back once it's gone and if they leave too its a double whammy.
Sex is precious, its holy, its God-ordain and once we realize at any point we can become pure again our love become much more valuable and your soon to be spouse will appreciate your commitment to wait on them.
These tools when realized with change your perception and perspective on love and how it vibrates to and from you. It's not good enough to just realize 1-10 we must also make these a habit a commitment as we discover a deeper level of self love. Without this no other love can exist. So if you're wondering why you can't find love or why love keep running away from you it's probably because it's not in you to begin with. It can't trust you to stay faithful to it cause you constantly lie to yourself, it won't believe a word you say because your self love actions show otherwise nor will it overflow in your life unless you begin to breathe it, speak it and show interest that it's alive and well.
This happens way too many times when a person "falls in love" and becomes so wrapped up in their partner that they lose sense of who they are, their goals and their position in the relationship. Now they feel lost and without cause because they've emptied themselves of love trying to over deliver to someone else. Then after awhile your intuition, inner-self, suffers from neglect and in your alone time it starts to speak out demanding your attention. Don't ignore this cry listen to the warning signs. Is this relationship adding value to your love life or are you afraid to leave? The amount you give to self attracts the amount they give to you, is your portion sufficient? When you realize you are too precious to stay God will give you the courage to leave.
10. When I realize I can keep myself pure I AM LUV. Yes we're talking about premarital sex, before we go there note sex and love are not the same. Love is something we are while sex is something that was created for us to experience as a result of a holy union. Living in a society where sex sells makes it pretty much hard to resist the temptation. But regardless of what's popular in the world what's right in the spirit is the only thing that will stand in the end. I'll be the first to admit staying pure wasn't idea as a teenager so much pressure (as it is today) but if I had that person educating me on the Word I would have known better and chosen to wait because I am worth it. It is what it is though. One thing I know it's never too late to start over and do it right, to repent and turn from wicked ways this goes for sex too. No we can't take it back and be virgins again but we can make up our mind from this moment forward to wait abstain until marriage. You don't want to be Jezebel going around seducing every man that comes by, now do you? That immoral woman is dangerous and every man that comes to her home will regret knowing her.
As we give away our most prized possession it somehow takes a piece of us that we can no longer get back once it's gone and if they leave too its a double whammy.
Sex is precious, its holy, its God-ordain and once we realize at any point we can become pure again our love become much more valuable and your soon to be spouse will appreciate your commitment to wait on them.
These tools when realized with change your perception and perspective on love and how it vibrates to and from you. It's not good enough to just realize 1-10 we must also make these a habit a commitment as we discover a deeper level of self love. Without this no other love can exist. So if you're wondering why you can't find love or why love keep running away from you it's probably because it's not in you to begin with. It can't trust you to stay faithful to it cause you constantly lie to yourself, it won't believe a word you say because your self love actions show otherwise nor will it overflow in your life unless you begin to breathe it, speak it and show interest that it's alive and well.
You got this sweetie, hold tight to these 10 habits and watch miracles on top of miracles flood your surroundings. I love you, hope you we're encouraged and inspired to realize the power invested in you to discover your worth.
Stay strong and remember to AspireLuv 😘😍💖💕
